Living in a small house, I often have no choice about the amount of stuff I own. My entire being lean toward frugality, and I couldn’t imagine going through life any other way.
Being able to afford food for your family might be the only reason for not spending money on cable. Other people might not spend that money because they don’t get enough value out of $120 per month.
Frugalism doesn’t mean you don’t like and appreciate high-end items. I have a Michael Kors wallet and purse that I absolutely LOVE! But, they came from the outlet mall, and I got them as a Christmas/Birthday gift (January Birthday up in here).
It doesn’t mean you live a boring life and never have fun. It just means that you are intentional in your enjoyment. If a vacation is what you want, then heck yes.
Minimalism can be whatever you need for you. It can be a capsule wardrobe instead of 2 pairs of underwear, one pair of shoes, and three t-shirts. It can be one set of 4 pots and pans instead of 12. There are no absolute rules.